CHANGES IN THE WORLD

CHANGES IN THE WORLD

 

Being almost 70 years old, I have seen many changes in the world.  When I was growing up, I remember my dad stopping to pick up hitchhikers or stopping to help someone who had car trouble. We didn’t have to lock our doors or worry about break-ins or shootings.  Internet, what’s that?  People were lucky to have a crank telephone and a black and white TV with a teeny-tiny screen.  For those families that had a radio, it was actually music that you could understand the lyrics.

 

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There were no fancy, name brand clothes when my sisters and I went to school but we had top of the line creations, all hand-made by my grandmother.  Drugs were unheard of unless you were sick and about the only “vice” to some was smoking cigarettes.   When we got home from school, we would change our schools shoes into play shoes and go outside to play with the neighbor kids. Everyone ran home when someone yelled “dinner time”.  It may not have been a perfect world, but it was a good one growing up as a child.

These are things that today’s generation will probably never be able to see in today’s world.  People lock their vehicles in their driveways, lock their home doors and even have to resort to having security cameras.   They are afraid to stop and help someone stranded with car trouble because we hear of people hiding in the woods, ready to run out and rob the person helping the so-called person in trouble.  The television shows aren’t like the good old shows like Wagon Train, Gunsmoke, Daniel Boone or Death Valley Days, instead they are reality shows and X-rated movies.  Some of the songs on the radio, you can’t even understand the words or the language is disgusting for youths to listen to but that’s the “norm” for many.   For hubby and I, we record all the old westerns, the old-time movies that you can actually laugh and cry through and the radio is on the 50’s and 60’s oldie channels.

 

My youngest grandson will turn 20 years old this month and I am amazed on some of his thoughts that he shares.  This is his latest post on Facebook, his views are so different from many of those his age and I’m so proud of Zachary.

But let’s just let all this chaos continue and it will eventually become normal. Let our kids keep listening to music like Tekashi or famous dex, so all they know is pharmaceuticals and having no morals. Let the people keep growing further and further apart so when someone decides to attack us we have no idea how to defend ourselves. Let’s keep focusing on very important events like Kylie Jenners new baby carrier or what celebrities are getting married because as we all know these events determine the fate of our country, not who the next president will be, or the things that the youth see on a daily basis, none of that matters right, lets just keep it going 👏🏼😕

 

This is another one of Zachary’s thoughts that I wrote a blog about.  He was 18 years old when he wrote about this topic.  http://themarthareview.com/teens-that-want-to-grow-up-too-fast/  Zachary seems way beyond his years with his thoughts and I never know what other wits of wisdom he will come up with.

 

Zachary has been on his own since he was just under 16 years old.  He endured mental and physical abuse but completed high school without any parental help, started working, got an apartment and with his hard work and determination is always looking to better himself.   I love this quote he wrote the month before he turned 16…..

Being a fighter isn’t about how much you can inflict pain on another 🚫 Its how well you can handle the pain that’s put on to you 👌
My past struggle will always be my motivation and the reason I stay humble 💯

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Martha DeMeo

I started my blog on Christmas Day 2014 mainly to review products I received. Since then it has evolved into many other categories of lifestyles, family, money saving ideas, low cost, delicious and healthy meals plus other surprise posts. My granddaughter has her own category, Alex's Articles and the latest addition to my blog is my great granddaughter now has her category, Lia's Likings The Baby Blogger! Lia started blogger at 8 months old and she now has a Friday Story Time blog you won't want to miss! I welcome you to join the conversation, ask a question, give a suggestion or leave a comment on any blog post. I hope you enjoy Lia's Likings, she has some great posts that will make you smile!

16 Discussion to this post

  1. Brenda Marie says:

    I love and agree with your statement about being a fighter.

  2. That comment was the same one folks made about rock and roll. It was wrong then and it is wrong now.
    While I am total agreement with your problem with reality (which have as much reality as a staged fight) show- but the westerns were just as damaging in their own way- with promotion of guns, violence, bias against Indians and visitors…

    All change has positive and negative factors. It is up to us- as parents to explain and show (not do as i say) what the ideals are. And, for us as citizens to determine what we will watch and emulate.

    • Martha says:

      One of the problems I see Roy, the parents of years back seemed to have more control with their children and the children listened and respected them. In this generation, I’ve seen parents stick up for their children, knowing they did something wrong. To me these are not deals and children learn what they are taught, good or bad. I’m so glad my granddaughter and grandson learned how not to treat others from how they were treated by their parents. Thanks for stopping by.

  3. @robertz says:

    Hello Martha. Funny, I was having a conversation in a local shop this morning about not having a fridge or washing machine when I was a child. For all the craziness of the world we live in, I am sure that many young people will see through it. let’s hope they do and restore some sanity for everyone’s sake. Good luck to your grandson.

    • Martha says:

      We had an ice box when I was growing up Robertz and eventually my family went “hi tech” with a wringer washing machine and a clothesline!! LOL Gosh those were some good years but yes, I realize times change and hopefully for the better as the years go by. I’m so proud of my grandson! Thanks for visiting.

  4. Glenda says:

    How beautiful and what an incredible young man and so handsome. You are so Blessed Martha with him and your granddaughter and the new baby as well as a fantastic man. Have a Blessed week my dear friend.

    • Martha says:

      Thanks Glenda, I guess you can see I’m very proud of my grandson with his ideals and thoughts. I feel the same why about my granddaughter and so excited to met our 5th great grand baby in a few weeks! Thanks for visiting my friend, hugs to Charlie!

  5. Eydie says:

    Insightful young man. Sorry he’s had to go through what he did.

    • Martha says:

      Thanks Eydie, even though he has endured so much in his young years, he considers them lessons in life and moves on. So proud of him!

  6. richa mina says:

    such an inspirational post. i totally love it.

    • Martha says:

      Thanks Richa, it’s amazing to me on some of the thoughts that my grandson comes up with, especially for his age. Thanks for stopping by.

  7. It’s a sad reality that the world has changed. As you said, Martha, not everything was better back then but many young people will never know the simple pleasures.

    • Martha says:

      That is so true Yvonne and it seems lately, I’m seeing myself go down memory lane and loving all the times I had with my parents and grandparents. Thanks for stopping by my blog.

  8. Fran Asaro says:

    Hi Martha, I love your grandson. What a wise soul. Thank you for sharing him with us. He is an inspiration to those who are amidst adversity and need to know they have a choice of which direction to go in.

    • Martha says:

      I am so proud of Zachary on his thought’s and inspiration as well Fran. For not quite 20 years old, he seems so much wiser than his age. Glad you stopped by!

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